I need an Emo look but not like that scary emo but like a cute emo guy look.?

yeah well im emo. anyone who doesnt like it keep your opinions to yourself. Im looking for a cool emo look but not like that scary chains all over your pants and blood covered gory tshirts but more of the emo band shirts, wristband, hats, and tight jeans look. But i need more than this. If you know stores like Hot Topic or others etc. GIVE ME SOME IDEAS! IM CLUELESS! I need an excellent emo outfit!